⏳BDSM Test Evolution⏳

By: Lady Petra (November 5, 2023)

Tests taken to date: February 2018 (DearlyDeparted), September 18, 2018 (Collared Sable), December 15, 2019 (Lady_Petra) & November 4, 2023 (Lady_Petra)

BDSM Test Details (11-4-23)

BDSM Test Details (12-15-19)

sub-bottom Scores Breakdown (12-15-19)

Other Scores Breakdown (12-15-19)

Dom-Top Scores Breakdown (12-15-19)

BDSM Test Details (9-18-18)

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BDSM Test Details (February 2018)

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100% Switch (11-4-23); 30% (12-15-19); 59% (9-18-18); 28% (February 2018)

Switches like to… well, switch. Always taking a Dominant or Top position is not for them, neither is always taking a submissive or bottom position. Some prefer to switch with the same partner or partners other than their Dominant partner(s), others have a Dominant play partner and a submissive play partner, but in either case they do not fit on one end point of the spectrum. Switches typically match well with other switches.

97% Exhibitionist (11-4-23); 79% (12-15-19); 71% (9-18-18); 93% (February 2018)

Exhibitionists enjoy showing their naked body or a sexual activity to other people. Definitions vary with respect to whether those being shown this, should be looking for such encounter or not. Exhibitionists typically match well with voyeurs.

97% Primal (prey) (11-4-23); 75% (12-15-19); 80% (9-18-18); 74% (February 2018)

Primals are mainly focused on their natural instincts and they enjoy letting their inner animal out during sex. The key part for Primals play is that the participants show their raw, emotional sexual feelings during play. All of the labels, roles, and protocols go out the window, and the prey (you) can become a snarling, growling, clawing animal/creature hell-bent on getting away from its predator. Preys typically match well with Primal Hunters.

91% Dominant (11-4-23); 10% (12-15-19); 32% (9-18-18); 10% (February 2018)

Dominants like to be in charge. Some like to have their partner obey them without questioning, others like some resistance while taking it their way. Some are Dominant only in the bedroom, others are Dominant throughout their daily life as well. Unlike the Top roles (giving pain/bondage/degradation), being Dominant is more about who decides what happens (and takes the responsibility that comes with it) than about the contents of what happens. Dominants typically match well with submissives.

79% Primal (Hunter); 5% (12-15-19); 25% (9-18-18); 26% (February 2018)

Primals are mainly focused on their natural instincts and they enjoy letting their inner animal out during sex. The key part for Primals play is that the participants show their raw, emotional sexual feelings during play. All of the labels, roles, and protocols go out the window, and the prey can become a snarling, growing, clawing animal hell-bent on getting away from its Predator (you). Hunters typically match well with primal preys.

72% Voyeur; 88% (12-15-19); 62% (9-18-18); 96% (February 2018)

Voyeurs enjoy watching the nakedness or sexual activity of other people. Definitions vary with respect to whether those being watched should be aware of this, or not. voyeurs typically match well with exhibitionists.

70% submissive; 66% (12-15-19); 63% (9-18-18); 99% (February 2018)

submissives like to follow. Some like to give control away to their partner(s), some like to have it forcibly taken from them. Some are submissive only in the bedroom, others are submissive throughout their daily life as well (usually with limitations). Unlike the bottom roles (receiving pain/bondage/degradation), being submissive is more about who decides what happens (and takes the responsibility that comes with it) than about the contents of what happens. submissives typically match well with Dominants.

69% Experimentalist; 28% (12-15-19); 50% (9-18-18); 80% (February 2018)

Experimentalists want to have tried it all, and they have an open mind and an insatiable curiosity which are their key features they will rarely form an opinion before they have gathered first hand experience. They often have plenty of fantasies and will actively pursue to try them out. Experimentalists typically match well with other experimentalists.

66% Masochist; 73% (12-15-19); 33% (9-18-18); 94% (February 2018)

masochists enjoy receiving (certain types of) pain from their partner(s), usually in a sexual context. masochism is independent of pain tolerance: it is purely about the ability to enjoy or get aroused by) certain levels of pain. masochists typically match well with Sadists.

62% rope bunny; 89% (12-15-19); 63% (9-18-18); 100% (February 2018)

rope bunnies like to be tied up and restrained, using rope and/or other attributes (chains, cuffs, spreader bars, etc.). Whether for sexual enhancement, for art or just for fun, they enjoy being totally at the mercy of their partner(s). Rope bunnies typically match well with riggers.

58% Rigger; 1% (12-15-19); 35% (9-18-18); 10% (February 2018)

Riggers like to tie up and restrain their partner(s), using rope and/or other attributes (chains, cuffs, spreader bars, etc.). Whether for sexual enhancement, for art or just for fun, they enjoy having their partners completely at their mercy. Riggers typically match well with rope bunnies.

51% Brat Tamer; 5% (12-15-19); 10% (9-18-18); 7% (February 2018)

Brat Tamers are, in essence, dominants who enjoy handling bratty submissives. They find disobedience a form of playfulness from the side of the submissive, rather than a form of rudeness. They will take no offence to it, but will still teach the sub a well deserved lesson (because, of course, that is why the bratty sub shows such behavior in the first place). Brat Tamers typically match well with brats.

51% Mistress/Masters; 0% (12-15-19); 26% (9-18-18); 19% (February 2018)

Mistresses/Masters receive complete control over the life of their slave(s), and all responsibilities that come with it. They go a step further than Dominants in the sense that their power exchange is present 24/7 and in all aspects of their life (except for negotiated exceptions such as during their office jobs). Their primary focus is to create a stable and safe environment for their slave(s), to allow optimal servitude. Mistresses/Masters typically match well with slaves.

32% Vanilla; 24% (12-15-19); 43% (9-18-18); 1% (February 2018)

Vanilla people enjoy regular sex, standard sex and relationship models. Nothing wrong with that, as long as you’re having fun! Vanillas typically match well with other vanillas.

27% slave; 59% (12-15-19); 64% (9-18-18); 99% (February 2018)

slaves completely hand over the control and responsibilities over their life to their Master/Mistress. They go a step further than submissives in the sense that their power exchange is present 24/7 and in all aspects of their life (except for negotiated exceptions such as during their office jobs). Serving their Master/Mistress is their primary focus in life and they rarely have limits for them. Slaves typically match well with Masters/Mistresses.

22% Sadist; 1% (12-15-19); 43% (9-18-18); 24% (February 2018)

Sadists enjoy inflicting (certain types of) pain on their partner(s), usually in a sexual context. Sadists typically match well with masochists.

22% Owner; 0% (12-15-19); 32% (9-18-18); 17% (February 2018)

Owners own pets/properties and take responsibility over them, on a 24/7 basis. Sexuality is not necessarily involved; in some cases animal role play attributes are also provided (e.g. a cage for the pet). Owners typically match well with pets.

15% pet; 75% (12-15-19); 75% (9-18-18); 75% (February 2018)

Is property of their owner in daily life. Sexuality is not necessarily involved. This role often features some form of animal role play (puppy, kitten, etc.), although that is not a strict necessity. pets typically match well with Owners.

10% Non-monogamist; 11% (12-15-19); 53% (9-18-18); 93% (February 2018)

Non-monogamists do not see sexuality as necessarily a 1-on-1 thing. Whether this means they will have several relationships or just see other people outside their relationship (or have even more exquisite constructions) depends entirely on the person and the situation, but they all have one thing in common: their sexuality is more than just between them and one fixed partner. Non-monogamists typically match well with (several) other non-monogamists.

8% degradee; 0% (12-15-19); 4% (9-18-18); 58% (February 2018)

degradees like to be degraded and humiliated by their play partner(s), either by being acted upon in a degrading way, or by being forced do things they consider degrading. degradees typically match well with Degraders.

7% Degrader; 1% (12-15-19); 1% (9-18-18); 18% (February 2018)

Degraders like to degrade and humiliate their play partner(s), either by acting upon them in a degrading way, or by or by forcing them to do things they consider degrading. Degraders typically match well with degradees.

2% Brat; 37% (12-15-19); 49% (9-18-18); 100% (February 2018)

brats are, in essence, naughty submissives. They find disobedience a form of playfulness rather than letting their Dominant down, and require a compatible Dominant who will not only teach them a lesson, but also accept that any number of lessons might still not necessarily change this behavior. brats typically match well with Brat Tamers.

0% Ageplayer; 4% (12-15-19); 36% (9-18-18); 67% (February 2018)

Ageplayers like to play with age as part of their kink. They typically take on a much younger or older age than they actually are, or prefer playing with a partner that does so. Attributes and behavior changes (such as pacifiers, coloring books, speaking in more childlike language, etc.) are commonly paired with this, to enrich the context and make it more appropriate for the played age. Ageplayers typically match well with other ageplayers.

0% Mommy/Daddy; 11% (12-15-19); 42% (9-18-18); 4% (February 2018)

Mommies/Daddies take on a caretaker role in the relationship, being a guide as much a Dominant. Mommies/Daddies Dominate their little treasure submissives with an iron fist in a velvet glove: much cuddly and affectionate on the outside, while being as sturdy and hard on the inside as other Dominants. Using subtle psychological mechanisms rather than brute power, they nurture their littles into obedience. Mommies/Daddies typically match well with girls/boys.

0% girl/boy; 31% (12-15-19); 66% (9-18-18); 85% (February 2018)

littles (girls/boys) are submissive spirits that mix childlike innocence with naughty sexual curiosity. They long for a nurturing loving Dominant who plays a guiding, almost parental role in their lives. While they require a softer approach to being Dominated than most submissives, their submission can go a lot deeper and sometimes rival those of slaves. girls/boys typically match well with Mommies/Daddies.

Analyzing Cumulative Results

If all tests are averaged, then my results are as follows; including personal comments:

85% Exhibitionist

Within the last year, I am discovering I am more and more an exhibitionist. I believe this percentage is actually much higher.

81.50% Primal (Prey)

Interesting percentage. Maybe this comes from my love of being chased or playing tag…🤣.

79.50% Voyeur

I have always enjoyed watching others.

78.50% Rope bunny

I enjoy restraint especially with chains. I am very intrigued by artfully erotic bondage.

74.50% Submissive

I know this percentage is much higher as I am deeply submissive to my Daddy.
Likely as I have evolved, this seems closer in matching my switch capacity.

66.50% Masochist

This percentage is likely much higher as I am evolving into my own version of Daddy’s masochist as I get very turned on by the chemistry and energy he and I share when in a scene.

62.25% slave

I am not a slave, but my deep submission to my Daddy closely mirrors a slave’s mentality as his joy is my deepest desire to fulfill.

60% pet

This was the one area that came up the same each time. It is likely my truest submissive nature for my Daddy. I will select this as my role since it seems to best describe me…Daddy’s kitten.

56.75% Experimentalist

This percentage is way off. I am highly experimental and willing to explore the rabbit hole with my Daddy.

54.25% Switch

This one is always present as I am Dominant in my professional career. However, in my private life I prefer yielding my power to my Daddy.
I have evolved to accept and embrace my Dominance and power as a woman.

47% Brat

I periodically like to tease my Daddy, but not really until the point of discipline as I prefer to be a good girl.

45.50% Boy/Girl

I have a playfully sexual side which brings forth my youthful curiosity from time to time.

41.75% Non-monogamist

I am a monogamist…my Daddy is my world and focus. As we explore the rabbit hole together, I am open to discussions about play with additional partners, which may or not include sexual play.
I have learned that I choose my partner and because I am a Demi- Sapio- sexual, it would be nearly impossible to add another partner to the mix. I’m 100% all in and have no spare time or energy for more.

35.75% Dominant

As a switch, I see how my slight percentage of dominance is relevant to my make up.

33.75% Primal (Hunter)

Not sure how this percentage came up…not my cup o’ tea.
🤐 I laugh when I read this now as I love to chase down my love.

26.75% Ageplayer

Strange percentage as I was a mom already…did that. Not interested in a repeat performance.

25% Vanilla

Vanilla from time to time is just as hot as kink, but I prefer kink as a 24/7 dynamic with my Daddy.
Even as a Dominant, I enjoy plain old hot sexy time.

24% Mistress/Master

Maybe as an online Mistress, but full-time 24/7 would take away from my Daddy’s attention, which would not be acceptable for how I choose to relate and connect to my Daddy.
I have grown to understand that I am loving Dominating my partner.

22.50% Sadist

I think based on my professional career, I am obviously a bit of a sadist.

18.25% Brat Tamer

Not interested in dealing with Brats.

18% Rigger

I have never really done this, and feel rigging myself is my greatest interest in this area.
I have learned I am not the traditional rigger. I enjoy using sensual materials to bind my sissy.

17.75% Owner